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Recognizing signs your children may be suffering during divorce

On Behalf of | Jul 20, 2023 | Blog, Divorce

The process of divorce, while difficult for the couple involved, can be especially challenging for children. They may struggle to understand what is happening, feel a sense of loss or confusion or fear changes in their family structure.

As a parent, you want to support your children during this time and help them navigate these changes. To do that effectively, it is important to recognize signs that they may be suffering emotionally as a result of your divorce.

Changes in mood or behavior

Children who are struggling may show noticeable changes in their mood or behavior. They may become more irritable or moody, lash out in anger or become withdrawn and quiet. You might also notice signs of sadness or worry that were not present before.

Problems at school

Another sign of struggle can be a sudden drop in grades or other problems at school. This could mean that your child is finding it hard to concentrate because of emotional stress. They may also become more disruptive or have trouble getting along with friends or teachers.

Changes in sleeping or eating habits

Children suffering during a divorce might experience changes in their sleeping or eating habits. This could manifest as trouble falling asleep or staying asleep, frequent nightmares, a loss of appetite or overeating.

Excessive clinginess or independence

Some children respond to divorce by becoming excessively clingy, often fearing separation from their parents. Others might display sudden excessive independence, possibly in an attempt to show that they are coping well with the situation.

Physical symptoms

Emotional stress can also manifest as physical symptoms. You might notice that your child complains more frequently of headaches, stomachaches or other physical discomforts.

If you observe any of these signs, consider seeking help from a professional such as a child psychologist or counselor. This will provide your children with the necessary tools to understand and process their emotions, ensuring they receive the support they need during this challenging time. Always encourage open and honest communication with your children throughout the divorce process.

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